Living the Aftereffects Without Remembering

“Sorry, I know everyone is very overwhelmed right now by the pandemics.  Whenever you have a little bit of time, could you, please, address this question”

“Here it is:  what if someone has been experiencing most of the aftereffects, but has no memory of this wonderful ‘home’ we all go back to when we die?  I actually lost consciousness during my accident, and I don’t even know for how long because I don’t remember the accident.  I woke up at the hospital, very happy for some reason, with a big smile on my face.  I made a policeman smile.  I remember that!  Why was I so happy and calm?  This pickup almost killed me.  You are so right about the long period of putting it all together, because it’s been almost 6 years since the accident.  I have been reading, watching materials (like your YouTube videos), and I always thought it couldn’t have been my case because I have no memory of the “home,” or the tunnel. . .  but when I heard your research results, it just struck me.  I do have almost all these aftereffects!  So, I guess, my question is:  have you done a study among people who have had a similar experience like mine?

“Also, if you could address the dimensions’ crossing (space/time)?  Thanks again and God bless you.  Be safe!”....Anna

ANSWER

Yes, there are many like you who exhibit the full pattern of aftereffects yet have no memory of the actual episode.  This often is true with small children, as well.

The pattern of physiological and psychological aftereffects holds true regardless of age, background, or belief system.  It is that pattern that validates the near-death experience - not the other way around.  I have spent 44 years watching people/experiencers, not just interviewing them.  My police officer father made it very clear:  “The body says more than the mouth does.”  If you want to validate the real truth of an NDE, watch for aftereffects - and include families, friends, neighbors too, for you want what they observed as well.  It is not enough for a researcher to ask a few questions or submit possible experiencers to a computerized questionnaire - or any type of prepared questionnaire.  You must observe, listen, watch, as well as speak - then double-check.

Children can forget even a dramatic episode if they are often or constantly panned or bullied by relatives, school kids, friends.  Children want to fit in, belong, but they can’t if they’re noticeably different and simply “don’t fit.”  I go in-depth about this in my latest book, THE FOREVER ANGELS:  NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCES IN CHILDHOOD AND THEIR LIFELONG IMPACT.  I confront what no one wants to hear in that book - that aftereffects can lead to a desire to leave this earth and go back - to commit suicide.  Not that many actually try to take their own life, yet they harbor this deep desire to return “Home” - their Home - they’re real Homey Home - on the Other Side.  Please read that chapter in the book, in fact, the whole book, so you’ll better understand the mind of a child and how they think.  Suicide is not bad in their mind.  Most have no sense that what they are contemplating is in any way harmful.  In their mind, they were in that wonderful place full of love when they weren’t breathing.  Now that they’re breathing again, that world is gone.  Aha!  Obvious to them - the way to get back there is to stop their breathing.  There is no sense of guilt about this to a child.  That can come later as they age.  Remember, for the little ones (ages birth to five years). . . there is little if any “before.”  Their near-death experience occurs during the time when the basic flooring is being laid in the brain for the brain-mind assembly, nervous and digestive systems, and skin sensitivity.  This discovery says we haven’t even done our basic work with little ones.  They simply do not fit the adult model.

With teens, young and older adult experiencers, the cause of “dis-ease” often has the simplest observation:  life is different, they’re different, so, where is the model, instructions, or any kind of understanding or suggestions, that is helpful in “dealing with it.”  Certainly, on my website at www.pmhatwater.com there is a section on the Home Page called NDE Aftereffects.  Go there for basic “first-aid” in helping you know what can occur, how that can screw up a life, and what to do about it.  Good suggestions.  Read all of them.  Try them out.  I also wrote a book for everybody, not just experiencers, in turning your life around on every level, rather than confusing it.  That book is A MANUAL FOR DEVELOPING HUMANS.  The drawings (the main ones) are thoughtform drawings.  Yes, I, like many other experiencers, can sometimes see thoughts in the air.  In this case, I simply drew what I saw when a particular thought manifested.

To find out if you are a near-death or near-death-like experiencer, consider these questions:

• Did you go through a life-threatening illness or accident or deeply felt fear “attack”?
• Afterward, were you in some way decidedly different than before?
• Have your family and friends noticed different changes in you after the event, as well?
• Do these differences grow with time?
• Are the first three years the most challenging, as if you no longer fit the human race?  Much less your own family?
• No matter how wonderful the effect of the changes, are people around you “spooked” or somehow wary of you, like you’re no longer the same person they once knew?
• Do you make or want to make radical changes soon after, or, more specifically years later, like seven to ten years later?
• Do you divorce or move away or somehow turn your life around in what seems to be a way that can manifest not only change, but “miracles”?
• Suddenly become more spiritual, rather than religious, and can develop a personal relationship with God or what you perceive as The One, The Creator, The Fullness of All That Exists (names can and often do change about this massively huge and important Being)?  Some move the other way, as well, convinced that there is no God and the whole thing was a joke of some kind.  Less than 10% of experiencers are like this.

I’ve written a lot about aftereffects.  But I think my early books, COMING BACK TO LIFE and BEYOND THE LIGHT, are my best on the topic - for I cover both positive and negative changes and the pattern to look for, and what you could do about it.

Yes, you can manifest the pattern of physiological and psychological changes, and still not remember even a glimmer of what happened to you- even with evidence, even proof that either you died or came close to dying or radically changed and quickly for whatever reason.  Denying such “evidence” is difficult to do, still, some people do just that.

Blessings, PMH